Pentecost 9 – B – 26th July 2015
Grace to you and peace from our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen
The text for our meditation is written in the 3rd Chapter of St Paul’s letter to the Ephesians: Verses 14 – 21:
14 For this reason I bow my knees before the Father,15 from whom every family in heaven and on earth takes its name. 16 I pray that, according to the riches of his glory, he may grant that you may be strengthened in your inner being with power through his Spirit, 17 and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, as you are being rooted and grounded in love. 18 I pray that you may have the power to comprehend, with all the saints, what is the breadth and length and height and depth, 19 and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.20 Now to him who by the power at work within us is able to accomplish abundantly far more than all we can ask or imagine, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
Every mother is a motivational speaker. Just think of all the ways your mum tried to motivate you. She used praise (“Well done”), punishment (“No ice cream for you.”), rewards (“If you’re really good, mummy will…”), guilt (“That makes me so sad…”), sympathy (“Darling mum had a long day…”), and threats (“Wait ‘til your father gets home!”). One day my little mate opened the car door when his mum was driving 60 kph over a bridge. His sweet mum's motivation to close it was a loud “Colin close that door now or you will feel my anger!” Anger, another motivational favourite! Every parent and every psychologist debates the best way to motivate our children into obedience.
Today, we’re wrestling with that same question because God is asking us to obey him…and it won’t be easy. You know, It really is worth doing a study of Ephesians, as in it you will see that God, through Paul, is commanding us to, “Be completely humble and patient…Don’t let the sun go down while you’re angry…Forgive as the Lord forgave you…Only say what is helpful for building others up…Let there not be a hint of sexual immorality among you…Wives, submit to your husbands…Husbands, love your wives like Christ loved…Be imitators of God.” That type of obedience won’t be easy, not for any of us.
Thankfully, God does not just command us, he also motivates us through the presence of His Holy Spirit, gifted to us at our Baptism, to want to obey these commands. So, in this text, as the Apostle Paul moves into the second half of his letter to the Ephesians, he wants to teach us the most powerful motivation for the Christian life.
Check out Ephesians 3 where Paul writes, “14For this reason I kneel before the Father, 15 from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name. 16 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith.” Paul is rubbing his knees raw in prayer, begging God to strengthen these Christians, all Christians. He’s asking the Father for their strength, (our strength), strong hearts and mature minds. He wants Jesus to dwell in their hearts, that is, to permanently reside in the Ephesians so he can influence every choice they make, every word they speak, and every thought they think.
He continues, “And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love…” Two more pictures of spiritual strength. Paul prays for roots like an old Gum tree, roots that reach down so we aren’t carried like a plastic bag on a windy day, blown here and there by every trend and every godless friend. And Paul prays we are established like a cement foundation, dug down deep so the monsoon rains of our toughest days don’t sweep away our faith. Again and again, Paul asks the Father for our spiritual strength, the ability to obey the commands that are to come.
And then Paul gets to the motivation. This is what every therapist is searching for, what every mother hopes to discover. This is the dynamite force that will stir us, compel us, move us, inspire us, motivate us to obey God with all our heart, all our minds, all our strength. Here it is, verse 18, “I pray that you…18 may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19 and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” What is Paul kneeling down and begging God for? What is Paul hoping and praying his people grasp? What does Paul know will motivate them to obey? The love of Christ. The enormous, immeasurable, perfect love of Jesus Christ for us.
So, Paul pulls out his Stanley tape measure and asks us to hold one end as he tries to mark off the dimensions of Christ’s love. “It’s wide!” he shouts, wider than a newborn babe's eyes at 3:00 am; wider than the Pacific Ocean in a 10 ft rowing boat“ And it’s long!” he calls, longer than an uphill marathon on a hot day, longer than a trip to Adelaide with three kids and a broken air conditioner. “And it’s high,” he adds, taller than your 15 year-old nephew, taller than the stories your grandfather told “And it’s deep,” he concludes, deeper than a professor's thoughts, deeper than the Federal Treasurer's pockets, deeper than the deep blue sea. The tape measure stops, unable to measure the dimensions of Jesus’ love for us. Paul knows that. He admits this love “surpasses knowledge,” but he still wants us to know it in part because even a piece of that love will change us forever.
Ever asked a child how much they love mum or dad, or both?Their eyes light up and their arms stretch out and they answer " I love you this much. That's a WOW moment because that's a lot of love!
Friends that’s nothing compared to God’s answer to that question. Think of what we are, what we were, and how much God loves us. In Ephesians 2, Paul wrote, “All of us followed the ways of the world…gratifying the desires of our sinful nature… following its desires and thoughts. We were by nature objects of wrath.” All of us have been there. Some are still there, doing what they want, pursuing what they desire. Not thinking much about what God wants. Too busy thinking about what they want. God’s will? God’s glory? That's not even on their minds. Yet, and yet, even in that moment, even today, if they asked God that question, “How much do you love me?” God would say, “This much!” Enough to not give up on you. Enough to help you before you helped yourself. Enough to love you before you even loved me. Enough to forgive you, not in part, but the whole. How do you measure the distance from heaven to earth? Between Heaven's throne of glory and the agonising throne of the cross at Calvary,? You can’t, but that is the distance Jesus traveled to demonstrate his love. There is no tape measure to mark the distance of that kind of love. Ask Jesus how much he loves you and he will stretch out his pierced hands and smile, “This much!”
Can we grasp that? Can we believe it? Do we know this love that surpasses knowledge? Let’s see…How much does Jesus love the depressed teenager who is convinced she’s worthless? This much (stretch)! “You have been redeemed, not with gold or silver, but with the precious blood of Christ!” How much does Jesus love the college graduate who can’t get a second interview? This much! “I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to give you a future!” How much does he love the unloved wife, the suffering family, the struggling addict, the atheist? This much! “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” How much does Jesus love the person who today received a lengthy prison sentence? This much! “Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies!” How much does Jesus love us right here right now? That much! “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son.” It doesn't matter what we've done, what we've said, what we've thought. I don’t care how hard life is or how much is wrong with our world. That doesn’t change the measurements of Jesus’ love for us.
Do you know what that love will do to you? In the 17th century, pastor John Bunyan was imprisoned for preaching the Word of God. During his years in jail, his fellow prisoners debated with him about his continued focus on grace, the unconditional love of God. They objected, “John, you must not keep assuring people of God’s grace because they will do whatever they want.” Bunyan’s answer? “Actually, if you keep assuring people of God’s grace, they will do whatever He wants.” Bunyan knew that love is the greatest motivator of all.
Paul said it this way, “Christ’s love compels us.” The Apostle John agreed, “We love because he first loved us.”
If there is a secret to the Christian life, it’s that. Love moves us. Does God encourage us in his Word? Yes. Does he threaten us if we are living in rebellion against him? Yes. Does he promise rewards and blessings to us if we obey? Yes. But his greatest way to motivate us is through His immeasurable, incomprehensible, deep rooted, solid foundation of love.
The human problem in this equation? We destroy our inner peace by setting conditions and expectations when we enter into a relationship
The acclaimed author Eckart Tolle once wrote:
“If you cannot be at ease with yourself when alone, you will seek a relationship to cover up your unease. You can be sure that the unease will then reappear in some other form within the relationship, and you will probably hold your partner responsible for it.” – And the equally acclaimed author Kim Eng wrote: “How we relate, or rather how well we love, depends on how empty we are of ideas, concepts, and expectations.”
God's love is totally unconditional, Jesus' sacrifice on a cross was an unconditional gift of love to us and His resurrection was the absolute assurance that we are a forgiven people with the promise of eternal life with our Triune God in heaven.
Now you can confidently proclaim to your husband, wife, children, family, and all people on earth, “I don’t love you because I have to or I’ll go to hell. I love you because the love God expresses for me in Jesus motivates my will to do so”
My friends, remember God’s love. When our Father challenges us in our life's journey, remember the width and length and hight and depth of the love of Christ. That's the firm ground and steadying hand we need. God loves us this much! Amen!
“20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever! Amen.”